We’ve had a revolving door of houseguests over the past four weeks. I feel so popular!
Following my FIL’s visit the first weekend in August, my MIL and nephew came up for a few days. They drove the 1,200 miles from Tacoma to Rapid City, which I can tell you from personal experience is quite the haul. Once again we played tour guide, taking them to the usual hotspots – Mount Rushmore, Custer Wildlife Loop, downtown Rapid City.
Anthony loved the dinosaurs almost as much as my blogging friend, Jess Witkins!
Come to think of it, so did I…
It was a pretty nice visit. All of our guests have been very impressed with western South Dakota and really like our house. You could call these visits soul-affirming, even though we already knew we made a great move!
I was especially excited to see my parents, because – well, they’re my parents! And it had been 11 months since we’d seen each other. I’m pretty sure that’s the longest I’ve gone in my adult life without seeing them.
They arrived Thursday morning, and I was able to take Friday off to spend some time with them. In addition to seeing the local sights—Prairie Berry Winery, Crazy Horse, Pactola Reservoir—we have been enjoying lots of time on the patio. Evenings have been spent talking, drinking wine, listening to music, barbecuing, playing corn hole, and dodging mosquitoes. Not in that order. The weather has been perfect; temperatures have been mild and, so far, we haven’t had any thunderstorms.
A fun thing happened yesterday. Our doorbell rang, and when we opened the front door, there was Doris’s daughter Kristi and her new husband Troy. We had spoken to her over the phone a few weeks ago and invited her to stop by when she was in town.
Kristi grew up in our house and you could tell it was a very emotional experience for her to be back inside. She approved of the cosmetic changes we made upstairs and was thrilled that we kept the basement the same. We learned a few more interesting facts about the house and what it was like for Kristi and her brothers growing up in the neighborhood, and we let her dig up several of the dwarf irises her great-great-great-great grandmother transplanted from Norway. She’d told us she regretted not taking any, so now she can plant some in her garden in Connecticut. They’re a very nice couple, about my age, and we told them they have an open invitation to stop by any time they are visiting Rapid City.
I’m glad she got to see the house. I still recall my road trip to Dayton, Ohio in 2011 and my own (failed) attempt to visit my childhood home. I know what a thrill it is and would never deny her the opportunity! Upon leaving, Kristi said she is happy we bought her mom’s house and is grateful that we are honoring her legacy so much.
Gotta run. We have some errands today, including picking up a new stand-up freezer—a generous housewarming gift from my parents. We’re zipping down to Fort Collins next weekend to stock up on items from Trader Joe’s and now I can stuff that bad boy with chile lime chicken burgers and steel-cut frozen oats to my heart’s content. We’re headed out to dinner tonight, and then Tara and I have to go back to work tomorrow. My parents will be here until Wednesday. But they’re talking about coming back in October, so I’m pretty sure I won’t have to wait so long to see them this time around.
I really have to brush up on my corn hole skills though, because my dad has been kicking my ass.
11 thoughts on “Revolving Door”
I am so glad that you have got to see family that you love. What a whirlwind few weeks you have had.9
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It’s certainly been busy! But I feel fortunate that so many people want to come out and see us. Sure beats the alternative.
Mark, you can so tell by looking at these photographs that everyone was had a great time and really enjoyed themselves! And btw, these pictures are AWESOME! The area you and Tara live is just gorgeous! Isn’t it fun to show visitors around a place that you love and feel excited about?
“Kristi grew up in our house and you could tell it was a very emotional experience for her to be back inside.” Yes, I’m sure it was because a home holds so many memories because a home (I believe) contains part of our DNA, so it’s always there. And I’m sure she LOVED the cosmetics changes you and Tara made to the house.
Have a great dinner tonight!
I believe the same thing, Ron. I sometimes wonder about the energy in my old townhouse. I can’t imagine how strange it would feel to step back inside there again!
Good stuff all around. Having a stand alone freezer is sooo nice, just to stock up on things when they are on sale. Glad you finally got to see your parents!
I was okay with a chest freezer, but they talked me into the stand-alone model and insist it will be easier to fill that thing up than it seems. I believe it!
Happy you had a nice time! Hope you don’t tire of seeing the same landmarks over and over. Really cool about the irises. So kind of you. My childhood home is in Ohio also. Was last there five years ago. Before that it was a eight years. It was sad to see how the old girl has been falling apart slowly. Then again, she was built in 1862!
Considering no people built…err, born – in 1862 are still standing, I’d say your house is doing a heck of a lot better! Where in Ohio did you grow up?
Small town between Cleveland and Akron.