There was a moment Friday evening when I turned to Tara and said, “Holy shit. I can’t believe we’re on a boat in the middle of Lake Superior.”

This is how my life has been: full of surprises. Experiences I never dreamt I would be having just 10 years ago.

We left home shortly after 8:00 Friday morning, arriving in Bayfield some six and a half hours later. The drive was long and uneventful, except for the moment when we suddenly and unexpectedly found ourselves in the Upper Peninsula of Michigan. I pride myself on my geography skills, but I legit had no idea Michigan was that close. We had just passed through Hurley, Wisconsin, and needed a gas stop. There was a Kwik Trip two miles down the road at the next exit, so we took that – and passed a “Welcome to Michigan” sign.

Just like that, we were in the U.P., and Tara crossed another state off her list. We were probably more excited than anyone else driving through Ironwood, MI, because it wasn’t much more than strip malls at that end of town.

Minutes later we were back in America’s Dairyland, and we pushed on to Bayfield without ending up in Nebraska or Alabama or any other surprise state.

Our motel was kind of weird. It was a half-refurbished old property under new ownership that didn’t show up on Google Maps. There wasn’t even a sign or any humans on the premises; we were emailed an access code in lieu of a key. And it was also in the midst of a renovation. It was decent enough inside, but the work was a little sloppy. At least the bed was comfortable, and we had a decent view of Lake Superior from the deck.

We had an hour to kill before it was time to board the boat for our Apostle Islands cruise, so in true MarTar fashion, we stopped by a dive bar for a cocktail before proceeding to the dock.

Standing in line before boarding, we debated where to sit. I wanted to hang out up top, out in the open, where most of the other passengers were making a beeline. Tara said it would be much more comfortable below deck. I planned on taking lots of photos and didn’t want a pane of glass obstructing my view. Besides, there’s a certain romanticism to feeling the wind in your hair as you’re chugging along. (Do boats chug, or is that just a train thing? I’m not sure of the exact terminology.) But I reluctantly agreed, and we grabbed a spot next to a window, which thankfully slid open. Midway through the cruise, half the passengers up top had retreated to the cabin to escape the cold, and the rest were probably wishing they had.

I hate that Tara was once again right, but to her credit, she didn’t rub it in.

We booked the Grand Tour, which covers 55 miles over 2.5 hours. Our guide shared lots of interesting facts about the Apostle Islands, recounting the history of the 22 different islands and some of their more colorful inhabitants, as well as the Great Lakes shipping industry. There was plenty to see: dramatic cliffs, brownstone and basswood quarries, an historic fishing camp. The highlight was the sea caves and lighthouse on Devil’s Island.

We were back in port by 7:00. By then we were plenty hungry and thirsty, so we headed back to Morty’s Pub. Ended up parking ourselves at the bar and staying there until after midnight, enjoying drinks and the best fried pickle spears we’ve had since leaving Vancouver. We played some trivia, watched the Brewers game, and chatted up another couple visiting from Minnesota. Good times.

Speaking of Minnesota, that was our destination on Saturday. After grabbing breakfast at Manypenny Bistro in Bayfield, we drove through Superior and Duluth to Highway 61, aka the North Shore Scenic Drive. I have a thing for lighthouses and wanted to check out Split Rock, generally regarded as one of the most picturesque lighthouses in the U.S. It’s easy to see why:

Split Rock is 2.5 hours from Bayfield, and we had a dinner reservation for 6 p.m., so we didn’t have a ton of time to explore Minnesota’s North Shore. But it’s gorgeous up there, and we will definitely be back.

On the way back, we stopped by Spirit Room in Superior’s historic former City Hall for a craft cocktail. My blackberry basil Old Fashioned was superb.

Sadly, we only had time for one, as our restaurant in Washburn was still an hour away and the clock was ticking. Prime rib waits for no man.

We were way too full for dessert, but that’s why they invented to-go containers. I enjoyed a slice of blueberry cheesecake in the room later before we crashed for the night. It had been a very busy day!

Sunday morning, I walked from the motel to downtown, a short 10-minute stroll. Grabbed an iced coffee and wandered around for a bit before heading back. Fog had rolled in overnight, lending the bay a moody and slightly eerie ambience.

After breakfast – we enjoyed Manypenny Bistro so much the first morning, we ate there again the next day – our last stop in town was Hoop’s Fish Market for some smoked salmon and the house specialty, a Lake Superior whitefish spread.

Then it was time to begin the long trek home. I wasn’t particularly relishing another six hours in the car: we spent a lot of time driving over the weekend. But we also got to see and do a lot of fun things – the perfect way to celebrate 12 years of adventure as husband and wife – so it was totally worth it.


62 responses to “Twelve years and 22 apostles.”

  1. Sounds like you had a fun getaway! Thanks for sharing the views!

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    1. We did. Thank you for enjoying the views!

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  2. Happy Anniversary to you and Tara! What an adventure–both the weekend, and the last twelve years! Here’s hoping the next twelve are just as exhilarating (and delicious)!

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    1. Thank you! I would say exhilarating and delicious is a great way to describe our marriage. 🙂

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  3. Beautiful scenery, a dive bar, a Great Lake boat ride, a lighthouse, a stellar craft cocktail and a prime rib dinner sounds like a great getaway to me. Though I hear you about 12 hours in the car. That’s a lot for a weekend.

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    1. Actually, that’s 18 hours over three days. But still worth it! (The lighthouse alone would have made it worthwhile. Everything else was just a bonus.)

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    1. Thank you. I appreciate that!

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  4. That’s a gorgeous lighthouse! I love all your explorations and how open you are to new adventures of the traveling and culinary varieties.

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    1. It’s picture postcard perfect! (Great alliteration but hard to say three times fast.)

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  5. Great way to celebrate 12 years! Looks like you were in the same territory as my Alison & Chris on their last road trip. Bayfield sounds really familiar, as does Duluth because I was envious they were near the original Duluth Trading Co. Some day I’m actually going to get that pair of flannel lined jeans, especially since there’s an outlet in Golden.

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    1. I really wanted to work for Duluth Trading Co. (Corporate; they were hiring a writer when I was looking for jobs out here, and I landed two interviews, but it never went any farther.)

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      1. Darn! I would have posed as a family and maybe gotten steep discounts 🙂

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  6. I would’ve been out on the upper deck and loving it, while Andy shivered and grumbled about getting hypothermia–which he swears he got on a harbor cruise once. In SAN DIEGO.

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    1. This sounds like me and Kenn. I would be on the upper deck while he was on the lower. (I’m also the one who sits in the splash zone at Sea World, while Kenn takes photos from as far away as possible.)

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      1. I think there’s a built-in expectation when seeing a Sea World show: you’re going to get wet. And that’s okay!

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      2. Not Kenn. He heads for the top row and says, “I’ll see you after the show!”

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    2. Ha! I guess we should team up on a future cruise. We’ll hang out up top, Andy and Tara can sit below deck.

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  7. Happy Anniversary, Team MarTar!

    Thanks to your posts, Kenn and I have several places to visit when we reach the Wisconsin leg of our current road trip. So far, we have the Apostle Islands, Atomic Antiques, and the Bronze Fonze on our list of stops.

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    1. All three are excellent MarTar-approved choices! You’ll have a blast.

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  8. Sightseeing in the Upper Peninsula, out on Lake Superior, cool pics, Prime rib, and Blackberry basil Old Fashioned . . . Yes, sounds like the perfect mix! The photos are awesome. Happy Anniversary!

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    1. Thanks, Brian. It was delicious fun, even if I did put a lot of miles on the car!

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  9. I love the Grand Tour! Looks like you guys had better weather than we did. We also stopped to see Split Rock, but from afar, so I appreciated the up close tour.

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    1. We got lucky with the weather. My radar app showed thunderstorms and heavy rain all around us, but we were in a dry slot. Whew!

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  10. And here I was, waiting for the classic shot of you and your wife at the edge of the boat, à la Titanic style, with the wind whipping through your hair. Of course, your story has a much happier ending.

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    1. Oh, trust me, I totally would have set up that shot if we’d been allowed access to the front of the boat. Sadly, it was off-limits to all but the crew…and I guess they aren’t big Titanic fans.

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  11. What a memory made!

    Do boats chug? You have triggered something in my (pea)brain, because I can’t stop thinking about this.

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    1. Trains chug. Beer drinkers chug. I’m not sure about boats though…

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  12. Thanks for sharing your travels, Mark. I’m a great armchair traveller!

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    1. At least you can visit great places around the world with your remote!

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  13. Let the trains and boats chug while you concentrate on sipping! Congrats on the first dozen!

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    1. Thanks, Geoff. May our marriage keep chugging along!

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  14. Congratulations on your anniversary, and to Tara for bagging another state. I have enough UP experience for 50 people; if I had known she was lacking, I would have given her some of mine. 😉
    With Bobbie 2.0 being born as I write this (they just texted a photo of our frame yesterday!), maybe we’ll venture back up Bayfield/Northshore way one of these years. Hard to forget the memory of being devoured by skeeters, though. Doesn’t sound like you had that problem. That’s the benefit of going in September, I suppose.

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    1. The mosquitoes are still so bad at home, I was worried…but even hiking down the forested path to the beach at Split Rock, in shorts and a t-shirt, I didn’t encounter a single one. Whew!

      I’d love a recommendation for a good UP getaway if you’re so inclined.

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      1. Most of my experience is in Ironwood and some tiny towns nearby (we had a ski cabin up there, which explains why I spent so much of my childhood up there), which I don’t particularly recommend, except for skiing. However, my brother and his girlfriend love the Marquette area… My memories of that part are vague and very old because I was up there as a young girl when my oldest sister went to college there, but I remember it being really pretty – I recall the city being on a hill leading down to the lake.

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      2. Oh, okay…Ironwood is where we were. Didn’t look like much from the outskirts, but I’d love to explore further. And I hear good things about Marquette. Thanks!

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    1. The weather and the experience!

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  15. This looks like such fun. I love this part of the country, I’m midwestern through and through. Congrats on your anniversary. Great way to celebrate.

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    1. I hear you, Mrs. Bean. I love it too. I feel very fortunate to have moved out here, because otherwise, I never would have gotten to experience all this Midwest greatness. If nothing else, it validates that I belong here (not that there was any doubt).

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  16. I love reading about your travels together—such beautiful scenery, and the perfect way to spend an anniversary weekend. Wishing you both a very Happy Anniversary!

    (The whitefish spread…sounds really good)

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    1. Thanks, Kari. Hopefully we’ll have some more great travel adventures next year!

      The whitefish spread is good…but the smoked salmon is absolutely stellar. We’re bummed that we are running out already.

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  17. Wow – what a cool adventure! Split Rock lighthouse is so stunning! You guys did it all driving, boating, walking, and diving (or maybe that’s dive barring, not sure of the infinitive 🙂 ) Happy anniversary!

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    1. I’m not much for being underwater, so that kind of diving is more my speed! Thank you for the well wishes. 🙂

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  18. You guys really know how to live. This: blackberry basil Old Fashioned I would love to try. The six hour drive sounds brutal. Then I remembered we did seven two days in a row with four kids in the car on our way to CO this summer. Maybe all the people actually made it go by faster, but it wasn’t fun.

    Happy anniversary again!

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    1. Thank you! I would have loved to hang out at Spirit Room for a couple of hours. Next time we go up there, we’re going to stay closer to Superior and focus on that area. Maybe next fall.

      I am planning to drive from here to Portland and back, by myself, next year. That’s going to be a lot.

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      1. Portland and back. Ooof. You sure you don’t want to just fly? Otherwise, good thing you have an iPod!

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      2. Flying would be 1,000 times easier. The only reason I want to drive, just this once, is to stock up on a lot of our favorite things. We haven’t been back since leaving in 2008, and have a list of things a mile long to bring back.

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      3. Fair enough. Also, do you for realsy want a bona fide copy of my freshly printed, hold in your hand autographed book?

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      4. Yes! And of course I’ll pay you for it!

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      5. Let’s see if this gif link works.

        Also, my big bro would be so proud of me for thinking of this quote.

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      6. Totally worked. Well done!

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  19. Congrats to you both! A blackberry basil Old Fashioned is not a thing I even expected to hear – but you being an authority of Old Fashioneds, I shall put it on my list to try.

    It is a gorgeous lighthouse. Sadly, I’ve only visited it via YouTube land…

    Oh & to make you feel better, I’d have insisted on being up top too, and would’ve deeply regretted it when getting cold later. Be grateful for Tara’s wisdom, Himself would’ve agreed to my preference as he doesn’t feel the cold, and then muttered when I complained and wanted to move!

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    1. Most of the women who have commented have said they’d choose to be up top too. But no regrets; I was able to open and close that window and avoid getting too cold or wet in the process, while still ending up with some great pics.

      There were three different Old Fashioneds on the menu. Narrowing down my choices was hard, trust me. All the more reason to go back and stay longer next time.

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  20. This looks like a perfect weekend getaway for both of you—Happy 12th!

    The photos are all gorgeous, but yes, that Split rock lighthouse totally ROCKS!

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    1. Thank you, Suz. I’ve visited a lot of lighthouses in my day (Oregon coast and all), but none of them hold a candle to Split Rock! Or a Fresnel lens, as the case were…

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  22. 22 apostles ? OMG. I had an uncle that had them too all over his neck and back but were removed by a surgeon /witch doctor/ barber guy over in Middleton. Uncle Salvatore is doing much better now.

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  23. Sounds a great trip, happy anniversary, may you enjoy many more together. What’s U.P.?

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    1. It was, and thank you. U.P. is short for Upper Peninsula, aka, the Upper Peninsula of Michigan (a state that is essentially divided in half). Most people around here just call it “the U.P.”

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