I mentioned in my last post that we had a houseguest. Tara’s cousin from Elko, Nevada, visited us for a few days. Like most of our first-time Wisconsin visitors, he was pleasantly surprised, and is already talking about a return trip someday.

I tell you, the Badger State has that effect on people.

I hadn’t seen Teran (a friend joked that his name is the past tense of Tara, but I think it sounds more like a verb, e.g., we’re Teran down the highway!) in four or five years – and even then, we only ever chatted briefly. He seemed like a nice enough guy, though I didn’t really know him. After a four-day visit, I can confirm that my first impression was accurate. He’s a cool dude, and I enjoyed hanging out with him, though Tara – who took the whole week off – did a lot more hanging than me.

But my hanging was quality hanging. Thursday night, we busted out Phase 10 for the first time in many years. Played cards, listened to records, drank adult beverages, ordered pizza. This is something I’d never do on a “school night,” but I took my first official CheeseGov vacation day on Friday, so I had no qualms about it. We spent pretty much all day Friday in Madison, showing off the city and taking Teran to some of our favorite spots: Atomic Antiques, Memorial Union Terrace, the capitol building, Camp Trippalindee, and – last but not least – the Great Dane. Needless to say, it was a full day, and Teran got the full cheese curd experience.

He left Saturday morning, so it was kind of a whirlwind visit, but four days hosting guests is just about perfect.*

*Unless said guests gave birth to you.

(Gotta add that disclaimer ’cause I don’t want to be left out of the will.)

After Teran left, I busted out the John Deere and cut the grass. First time all month, and it didn’t really need mowing, as the weather needle has been stuck on “warm and dry” for weeks, but I was tired of looking at all the fallen leaves covering the lawn. The JD made quick mulch out of those (though within an hour, newly fallen leaves had already taken their place – @#$%! circle of life). Unless the weather does a complete 180° and we are swamped with a deluge of epic proportions (unlikely), I’ll probably cut the grass one more time, once the trees are bare, before putting the lawn tractor away for the season.

The rest of the year is looking pretty low-key…at least for me; Tara’s planning a trip to Mexico with family in December. I’m okay with low-key. It was a very busy spring and summer, so it feels good not to have anything big looming on the horizon for a while.

Except possibly NaNoWriMo. I’ve been kicking around the idea of taking part this year, so I can finally get to work writing my sequel to No Time for Kings. It’s a huge commitment, but one that can pay off tremendously: I successfully completed NaNoWriMo in 2016, which enabled me to eventually publish Dream Sailors in serialized format on the Kindle Vella platform. One of my blogging friends has a mantra – “If not now, when?” – and, you know, she’s right. Left to my own devices, I might never be motivated to write that book. Life always gets in the way. NNWM would give me the kick in the pants I need.

But I refuse to force the issue. IF I participate in NNWM, I will need to have a very basic plot outline for Earth Fights Back. I refuse to write just to get words down on the page; I need some direction if I want this thing to turn out. That’s where I’m hung up at the moment. I have some ideas, but there are many possible directions, and I’m struggling to narrow them down and/or tie them together into a cohesive read. It’s been a long time since I’ve written fiction.

I’ll do some brainstorming this week and hope that inspiration comes a-knockin’.


45 responses to “I need a kick in the pants.”

  1. Low-key is good, especially when you live in such a nice place. I wish you well if you do NaNoWriMo, I’m sure you can make it happen. I’ve done NaBloPoMo a few times and that was enough *forced* writing for me. But you, my friend, are much wordier.

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    1. I’ve done NaBloPoMo in conjunction with NaNoWriMo, and would probably do the same if I actually sign on for the challenge. I’m wordy enough for sure; just need a dang plot!

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  2. I should tape that mantra to my forehead. 😃

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    1. You should check out Writer of Words. She’s the one who uses that mantra. You guys would probably have a lot in common…I mean sheesh, you even look alike!

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  3. Question – is it possible to visit your state without consuming curds?
    Complaint – once again you have neglected to name your cocktail.
    Comment – I’m not sure forced writing is ever the way to go. Nothing wrong with setting goals but creativity is fluid and you can’t tap a dry keg.
    😉

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    1. You could visit Wisconsin and not consume cheese curds, but why would you? That’s the better question.

      The cocktail was a smoked margarita. Half tequila, half mezcal, lime, triple sec, Tajin rim. It was pretty tasty!

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  4. Sounds like a great visit and as you said the perfect length of time, I’m sure he appreciates you giving the whole cheese curd to him. Hoping you can get your writing rolling.

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    1. Yep, I’m convinced that three days is too short, five days is too long, and four days is Goldilocks, baby!

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      1. trial and error ! just did a 3 day that was great, but kind of needed one more day. you may be onto something

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  5. What an amazing trip to Wisconsin for the cuz. I’m still waiting on you to visit the Dells?!

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    1. Yeah, I know. We’ve been there, though not specifically for the Dells (Ishnala Supper Club in Mirror Lake State Park, for example). It’s on our list!

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  6. “But my hanging was quality hanging.” – love it!

    Linda 🙂

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    1. Thank you, Linda! I appreciate you stopping by.

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  7. Cheese curds forever. That’s all I’m eating when we visit.

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    1. You could throw in a fish fry, too. Just for a little variety.

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      1. The only variety will be the type of cheese

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      2. It’s like you were meant to live here.

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  8. That picture of the colorful outdoor tables/eating area looks like it could have been taken in Europe. I don’t think I’ve ever eaten cheese curds. I’m not even sure what they are… but they will definitely be on my list if/when we ever visit Wisconsin.

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    1. You’re not the first person to mention the resemblance to Europe. That’s Memorial Union Terrace, a popular gathering place for UW students and the general public. It’s right on the lake, there are a bunch of dining options, and during the summer, there’s often live music. It’s just a great place to hang out.

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  9. Oh my goodness…unless said guests gave birth to you…what a heckuva disclaimer. The best! Thanks for taking us along. Your photos are fab, as always. And consider this a kick in the pants comment. Get on it, buddy! I love your sequel idea and I’m probably gonna “NaNo” myself – from an editing perspective. It’s the accountability thing that’s so powerful. 🥰

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    1. I’m all about accountability. And avoiding public humiliation. Which is why, if I do sign up for NaNo, there is no way possible I won’t complete it.

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      1. Wowza! Love your emphasis on ‘all’ and ‘won’t’. I always forget how to italicize and bold in WP comments. As for NaNo…I’m with you. Don’t dabble…just git er done.
        It feels stupid to log back in and acknowledge 90,000 words (my WIP) when what my task is editing, with beta readers help…but there’s that whole side to NaNo about accountability and time on task every day. Even just a smidge…whether writing or editing.
        I’ll cheer you on! You’ve got this. And I expect Laverne and Shirley to join me! 🥰

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  10. I wonder who has the best cheese curds in Wisconsin? I bet you could find out…

    Good luck on ALL THE WRITING.

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    1. Sounds like a challenge. We already have our favorites, but there are still tons of curds to be explored!

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      1. It’s definitely a challenge, but I believe you and Tara are more than up for it!

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      2. It’s dirty work, but….

        You know the rest.

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  11. Good luck with NaNoWriMo. For the first time since 2011, I’m NOT participating. The organization has become such a complete dumpster fire, I just can’t. It makes me kind of sad.

    I’m a pantser. I don’t outline. I generally know how the story starts and ends and a few random bits in between. I do have to have a title, though.

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    1. I still don’t know if I’m doing it. We shall see.

      I have always been a pantser. I just let the story unfold as it will. But, I at least need some general idea of what it’s about…and that’s lacking this time. For now, anyway!

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      1. I still need to re-read my NaNo novel that went completely off the rails. I thought I knew where it was going, but the characters just laughed and threw my plans out the window. An important secondary character died. One of the main characters turned out to be the villain. I was just along for the ride, wondering what was going on. It was a blast, LOL.

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      2. I can totally relate to this! Imagine my surprise when I learned, midway through writing NTFK, that one of my main characters was an alcoholic still battling his demons!

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  12. I love the idea of you participating in NNWM! Isn’t that kind of me to put your skin in the game?

    It does seem like you have had an intense year! Low key, no building raised beds, and writing all winter seems like a perfect prescription!

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    1. Gotta admit, you do make it sound appealing!

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  13. Firstly I love that picture with the multi-coloured outdoor chairs 🙂

    Good luck if you do decide to participate in NaNoWriMo. It’s such a massive commitment but I totally understand how it can take that type of thing to push through a project.

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    1. The sunburst chairs are so iconic and beloved in Madison, they well merchandise that features them!

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  14. Sounds like a fun visit.

    You’re looking to write a book called “Earth Fights Back” and just spent four days with a Terran? Put on your alien hat, add a bit of conflict, and you’ve already got your world and some characters. (Takes off tongue in cheek hat.)

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    1. I should hire you as a ghost writer!

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      1. Fiction is not my forte. Such a book wouldn’t have a ghost of a chance.

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  15. I’ve never had a novel in me, and thank goodness, because NaNoWriMo sounds like a huge commitment. Best of luck if you choose to do it. I’ve known people to drop out of the blogosphere for it, and I can’t say I blame them.

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    1. See, when I did it in 2016, I also blogged every single day…and would probably do the same this year.

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  16. Your visit with Tara’s cuz sounds like a blast—a cheese curd blast!

    Good luck with your book ideas; I know you’ll come up with something good!

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    1. Thank you for the vote of confidence! I do have some good ideas, but probably won’t be participating in NaNoWriMo after all. Though I still have 13 hours to change my mind…

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  17. […] rediscovered a favorite cookie, we entertained Tara’s cousin from Nevada, and I finally crossed the Northern Lights off my bucket list. Watching the dancing, […]

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  18. […] might think I’m a madman, but you know who doesn’t? Her cousin, Teran. He visited us a year ago and I was explaining all this to him one morning when he caught me staring at the wall. […]

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