When it comes to Christmas gifts, I like to give my parents experiences. My mom always insists we save our money and not bother getting them anything, but that doesn’t feel right! Besides, if I don’t get them a gift my brother will, and then I look like a cheap bastard. I don’t need that kind of stress in my life.

Fort Atkinson is home to the Fireside Theater, a premier Midwest dinner theater built in 1964 that attracts local, regional, and Broadway touring companies. My parents are super into plays, so last Christmas, our gift was dinner and a show of their choice. “Fiddler on the Roof” is wrapping up a run today, and that’s one of their faves, so they decided to come out for a visit last week and cash in their gift. The only issue? My parents fly standby, and so they never know in advance if they’ll be able to make flights. By the time they settled on this visit, “Fiddler on the Roof” tickets were sold out, with the exception of a few scattered single seats. The Fireside is so popular, in fact, that tickets for the rest of their shows this year – including “Nunsense,” “Matilda,” and “Rocky” – are also going fast or already sold out on specific dates.

Instead of navigating the challenges of trying to book nonrefundable tickets for popular shows days in advance, we decided to offer them an alternative gift: an authentic Wisconsin supper club experience. They were down, so I booked reservations at the HOBNOB in Racine. We’d been there last year for Tara’s birthday and had a great time. The price of the dinner was equivalent to theater tickets, so this was a solid Plan B.

People are always asking, so I should explain about Wisconsin supper clubs. Contrary to the name, they aren’t something you have to “join.” Supper clubs are like upscale, more intimate restaurants, and are a longstanding tradition in the Dairy State dating back at least a century, but can be tricky to define. Each supper club is unique, but they typically share the following key elements:

  • Dark and cozy retro ambience. Think dim lighting, plush booths, wood paneling, and velvet. The Rat Pack is likely to be playing over the sound system.
  • Classic cocktails. The supper club experience begins with cocktails, and Sconnies are partial to their brandy Old Fashioneds. I can attest to their deliciousness. Instead of simply bourbon, bitters, and sugar, our version is made with brandy, muddled orange slices, cherries, sometimes an olive, and a splash of soda. You order it sweet (7-Up), sour (Squirt), or press (half 7-Up, half club soda to cut the sweetness – this is my go-to). There are plenty of other drink options, of course.
  • Elaborate meals. Food is the centerpiece of the supper club experience, of course, and you will never walk away hungry. Many meals begin with a relish tray (cheese, crackers, pickled veggies), followed by appetizers, a main course – steak and seafood are most common – and dessert, which is often an ice cream-based cocktail like a Grasshopper or Brandy Alexander.

As of February 2024, there are approximately 250 supper clubs throughout the state. Regardless of where you are, you’ll never have to travel far to find one.

We had a reservation for 5 p.m. and the HOBNOB is 90 minutes away, so we left Casa MarTar at 3:00 on the dot. Arrived exactly at 4:30, checked in, and made our way to the plush velvet bar with a large picture window looking out over Lake Michigan. After a round of cocktails, we were escorted to our table, and spent the next two hours working our way through one incredible course after another. Tender calamari, stuffed mushrooms, the best French onion soup any of us had ever had, salad, and then our entrees. I chose duckling with sage dressing and orange sauce, Tara got crab cakes, my dad ordered veal Wiener Schnitzel, and my mom opted for fried scallops. We were much too full for dessert, but they have this handy invention called “to-go containers,” so slices of key lime cheesecake, tiramisu, and chocolate truffle cake accompanied us home.

As fun as “Fiddler on the Roof” would have been, I don’t think any of us walked away disappointed that we’d been stuck with HOBNOB as a backup.


27 responses to “Merry Christmas from the HOBNOB.”

  1. hobnob for the win!

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    1. Our server won with that giant tip too!

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  2. That looks fabulous! Experiences are so much better than stuff. I think you hit it out of the park with that Christmas gift!

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    1. Thanks. They were pretty pleased!

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  3. The sad thing is, I don’t think I’d be able to get to the main course before getting full. I’d do my best to pace myself through those early courses, though. And this, THIS: ice cream-based cocktail!!!!!! Combining two of my favorite things???? Valhalla!

    I think I need to check my airline miles. Last summer they got us to Seattle. I think I need to make a reservation to Hobnob. WI IS on my bucket list, after all.

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    1. I’ve never had an ice cream cocktail because we’re always way too full by then. But the couple at the table next to ours were sharing one and, yeah…it looked amazeballs.

      You should come visit! I mean the state, not us specifically, but you’re welcome to stop by here too!

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      1. It could happen some day! It only took years of being in talks with Wynne to make that happen. We’ll consider this Year One. I’ll see you in 2027!

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  4. Wow, hobnobbing with you sounds like the thing to do. I think I’d choose four courses over four acts too!

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    1. Did you mean for this comment to be a poem? Because: well done!

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  5. What a lovely idea 🙂 It’s something I tried to get going with family, but siblings voted for no gifts over experiences. With the exception of my mother who wants presents from everyone!

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    1. The thing is, I’m really good at giving gifts. Actual presents. Experiences are great, but not quite as much fun to give.

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  6. When I started reading this I was thinking Rat Pack era and was slightly disappointed you weren’t wearing a smoking jacket. Not sure why these places are called supper clubs but it all looks marvelous. What were the round fried balls in the first food photo?
    Sorry a play wasn’t available for your parents but I love the experience gift idea. I’ve done that with my husband to include falconry (a definite win), beer making (duh,, that was a no brainer), and learning to fly a helicopter ( total dud that he never even redeemed because the ‘copter they use was apparently the worst model with a terrible safety record. Which is what you get when you give a flying gift to an aviation safety inspector 🤣)

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    1. I’m guessing those are the fried scallops with lemon and tartar sauce that his mom ordered.

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      1. Ah, of course. I thought that was butter not tartar.
        👍

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  7. I enjoyed learning more details about the “supper club” concept there, Mark. The Hobnob sounds and looks great. I am sure everyone who visits appreciates at least one stop sign there…the one announcing Lake Michigan is your next stop after that one.🙂

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    1. The fact that they have three of those signs at the edge of the parking lot just yards from the steep cliff that leads down to Lake Michigan makes me think at least one car didn’t stop…

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  8. How fun! I’ve only experienced supper clubs through a few books I’ve read that were set in your area (or possibly Minnesota?) and my impression was rustic and family owned for generations. It sounds like they are recreating a 1960’s dining experience with the multiple courses and retro cocktails and food. I would love it! As much as I’m not exactly a big eater, I do sometimes find it disappointing when you go to a nice restaurant and nothing is included with the entree. Even sides like asparagus are extra, which is nuts to me.

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    1. I agree! It’s one thing to charge extra if you want mushrooms or bleu cheese crumbles on your steak, but when everything is priced ala carte – and it’s expensive to begin with – that just feels like a ripoff.

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  9. I give my mom “experience” gifts, too, but since she’s lived in Wisconsin for all of her 87 years and you can add probably three zeroes to that number to reflect the number of times she’s eaten at a supper club, I have to generate other ideas. Sigh.

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    1. Sounds like I need to reach out to your mom for supper club suggestions!

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  10. Oh man, a supper club! That’s a throwback to my childhood. Hobnob looks like a delight and once again reminds me of why WI is so cool. Beyond being there, of course.

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    1. So many people who have never set foot in Wisconsin are surprised to see how cool it is. I feel like a bit of a trendsetter, even if I did arrive late to the game!

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  11. This looks like fun…I also love giving (and receiving) experiences and I believe FOOD is an experience! I thought supper clubs had some sort of entertainment. No? No acting or singing? Maybe I’m thinking about Musical Theaters from back in the day.

    We have a nice restaurant in town named HobNob. I love it!

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  12. Looks lovely if a bit OTT… and they have ONE veggie starter and a veggie dish on the menu…amazing!

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