Saturday was TobacCo’s company picnic. Naturally, even though we’re in the midst of a drought, half an hour after we got there, thunder began rumbling. Then it started pouring rain. (As opposed to…milk? Rubber duckies? I guess I could have just said “pouring,” but I digress.)

Fortunately, we had a covered shelter. It got pretty cozy in there with a few dozen people dressed in loud Hawaiian shirts crowding close together to avoid getting wet. So weird that virtually everyone was wearing the same thing!

J/K. It was a Hawaiian theme, although only loosely given that they were playing Chris Stapleton music and the catered food was BBQ brisket and pulled pork.

We didn’t stay super long. By the time a second round of storms rolled in, we were outta there. But it was a fun little gathering, and I can’t remember the last time I had a company picnic. Probably 7-8 years ago when I was working for Fuel Medical in Camas, WA. The cops showed up and busted us (“us” being the company) because we were drinking alcohol in a public park. I’ll never forget our HR manager, a tiny sprite of a woman with thick black glasses who always reminded me of Edna Mode from The Incredibles, trying to sweet talk several police officers. I believe we still had to pay a fine.

Good times, good times.

Then later on in the evening, it really stormed hard, but by then we didn’t care since we were home playing cards.

The lightning and thunder were going off pretty much nonstop, and we ended up with over an inch of rain. Second week in a row, which is exactly what needs to happen if we are going to make a dent in our drought. Looks like July is going to end up wetter than average. Already our grass is greening up again, and I’m going to have to hop on the John Deere this afternoon and give it a good mowing.

(I say “have to” like it’s an unpleasant chore or something. Silly Mark.)

This week is looking hot, though. Mid-90s, heat indices over 100. Thank god for air conditioning.

Luckily, Friday was a lot pleasanter. There was nary a cloud in the sky, which made for an ideal afternoon and evening to kick back on sunburst chairs, drink beers, listen to music, and people-watch at Memorial Union Terrace in Madison. After scoping it out a few weeks ago, we wanted to come back for a sunset. We can now check that off our bucket list.

I love the Union vibe so much. It’s exactly the type of culture we desired (and the biggest reason we left Rapid City). No shade to the City of Presidents, of course. There are good things there, too…just different kinds of good things.

After sunset, we walked back down State Street for a late supper at Great Dane Pub & Brewing. Yes, the same place we went for brunch last Saturday. This time I got the Korean rice bowl I’d been craving! So, so good. We snagged a patio table and savored the warm night air.

Didn’t get home until close to 11:00, which is really late for a couple of old fogies like us, but we wanted to take advantage of one last Friday where we could spend all afternoon and evening downtown. I say “one last” because Tara starts a new job tomorrow. She’s actually been out of work for a couple of months. I’m not going to go into too many details about that; the abridged version is that she came home from her last job for lunch one day in mid-May and decided never to return.

I always thought she was way better than that place anyway.

It’s actually been a slightly stressful couple of months, because we aren’t in a financial position to be able to survive on just one salary. I had worst-case scenarios running through my head: having to sell the house, bid adieu to the birds and the ponds, and–worst of all–part ways with the beloved John Deere (sniff). I’m sure it never would have gotten to that point, of course, but The Unknown is scary. Luckily, I leaned heavily on my manifesting skills, and voila! Shiny new job for the wife.

I suppose her experience and charming interview skills had something to do with that, too.

It’s a much better fit for her professionally, and pays way better, too. The office is in a town 41 minutes away, a drive on two-lane highways that wind through more cornfields than you can count, but after a 90-day training period, she’ll be able to work from home three days a week. Just like me.

It feels like things are just now finally settling into place. Took almost 11 months to get to this point, but better late than never, right?


33 responses to “Channeling the Aloha Spirit with brisket and Chris Stapleton.”

  1. Congrats on finally feeling settled!!

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  2. Sometimes there’s trial and error in finding the right fit so I’m glad Tara (which seems like her style anyway from what little I know) left what wasn’t working and found something new and hopefully much better. I welcomed, during the few times I changed or went back to dental jobs, the chance to do a working interview. Even though it was stressful in many ways it also helped to see the dynamic of the team you might be joining. I said no thanks to many offers after spending a day in various offices. I always thought that a trial period would be helpful in many careers!

    Here’s to the rain! They say we get some tomorrow, but we’ll see. I think the weather people like to grasp at straws around here.

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    1. Only once in my life did I have something similar to a working interview. It was actually a four-day (short week following Labor Day) “trial” employment period with a company in Rapid City. Thank god for that, because after those four days were over, I chose not to continue. The work was definitely not what I had anticipated.

      (Then, a few months later, I had a change of heart and ended up working there again, lol. If you were reading me then I’m sure you remember all that drama.)

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  3. Rain, better paying job… good news all around it seems. Glad things are settling down and you’re settling in. From everything you’ve blogged about this really does seem like the perfect place for you. Kudus for finding it and making it work!

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    1. Don’t forget the Korean rice bowl! With grilled flank steak, pickled cucumbers, and a perfectly over easy egg on top. I took a pic, but alas, being that we were outside, it was too dark to really show up.

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      1. The only thing I like pickled is me.
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  4. Congrats to your wife! Why does our brain keep thinking bad things only to happen. Glad everything is turning good for you.

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    1. I suspect it’s a survival instinct. Our brains are programmed to envision worst-case scenarios so we can prepare a defense.

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  5. How was there no kalua pig at the Hawaii-themed party?!? Good for Tara. And hooray for work from home. And rain! I wish we had some, but probably not until October at the earliest.

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    1. Exactly!! I make a great kalua pig AND chicken long rice, but alas, I doubt any of my coworkers even know of my Hawaiian lineage. The really sad thing is, even my brisket and pulled pork are better…

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  6. Congratulations to your wife. I had a job 50 minutes away, and used it to play broadway musical soundtracks. I can sing footloose, sweeny todd, hamilton, les mis and more…maybe not quite as good as the actors but nobody heard me!

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    1. Haha! I told her it’s a great opportunity to catch up on podcasts. I have a 30-minute one-way commute twice a week and always use that to listen to my favorites.

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  7. Good news!

    Hope her new job is just the thing . . .

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    1. Me too. We have to stop moving, and she has to stop quitting jobs!

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  8. Glad you’re settling

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  9. The picnic and the evening in sunburst chairs and the dinner sound like fun (minus the storms of course). The last company picnic I went to was probably 2010-ish? I remember they packed us into a chartered bus and drove us 5 miles to Griffith Park. Even better though was the time they paid for us all to go to Universal Studios. Ahhh to work for small companies with a shit-ton of money!

    Tomorrow I’m celebrating National Tequila Day and will raise a toast to Tara’s new job! I hope she loves it there!

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    1. I apparently celebrated National Tequila Day two days early.

      Love the idea of getting paid to have fun at Universal Studios. That’s my kind of company picnic!

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  10. That sounds stressful with the employment situation, but I’m glad it worked out better for Tara. I think the last time I was at a company picnic was never!

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    1. I don’t know whether Covid caused a lot of companies to do away with picnics or they’ve just gone out of fashion. Maybe it’s a little bit of both.

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  11. Yay for a company picnic sans the PoPo. Also, great on the rain…but doesn’t it suck when it comes at a time you’d not like to have it? What are ya gonna do?

    Congrats to Tara on the new job, and to you for all the Manifesting shit you do…

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    1. Yeah, it’s funny how we can’t get a drop of rain to save our lives all summer, then during the brief three-hour window when we don’t want any, the heavens open up. Mother Nature is one twisted bitch!

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  12. I love the view from your deck. If I didn’t know where you lived, I’d assume it was in the Pacific Northwest. (I’ve never been there, so I could be wrong). I am so happy for your wife and you. That must have been a stressful time for both of you. We understand manifestation and everything that goes with it.

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    1. You know, as soon as we moved here, we noticed the resemblance to the PNW. It’s definitely a lot greener than the Northern Plains, where trees are pretty scarce (aside from the Black Hills, of course!).

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  13. There’s something about this post that I find extra charming. The asides, I think mainly, starting with “(As opposed to…milk? Rubber duckies? I guess I could have just said “pouring,” but I digress.)”

    It feels like we got an extra dose of Mark in this post and it’s delightful. Congratulations to Tara on the new job and I’m glad you weathered all that uncertainty with delight, some extra manifesting, to get to this point that feels more settled. Happy First Day!

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    1. An extra dose of Mark? I should charge more for this post!

      I kid, I kid. Thank you so much for saying that, and for wishing Tara well. Spoiler alert: she really likes the new job! Or at least the company, as she’s still in training and hasn’t even met her team yet. More to come on that later.

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      1. So glad for the tease about Tara’s job. That’s great!

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  14. This sounds like great news to me. I like knowing that you’ll both be able to work from your lovely home some of the time. When things aren’t working you gotta go for the solution.

    Also, should you be interested I answered your question today on my post. 🤔

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    1. It sure beats the alternative, i.e., being destitute and homeless!

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  15. 11 months seems short to be settled in and content with the way things are!! Good luck on Tara’s new job!

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  16. It’s great when you don’t have to stay in a job you hate. Congrats to Tara on her new position.

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    1. I’m so glad she has finally found a job she enjoys immensely. I just would have taken a different path to get there, but hey, it all worked out in the end!

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