Beware of False Perverts

My recent venture into my blog drafts folder (and subsequent discovery of a couple of diamonds in the rough) got me curious about my spam folder, something else I never look at. Classic case of “out of sight, out of mind.” Today’s email filters have gotten so good, the only time I ever think of spam is when I’m craving breakfast meat in a can. There were only four spammy comments in my WordPress folder, all of them from people wanting to sell me amoxycillin without a prescription. I don’t currently have any bacterial infections that I am aware of, so those guys were barking up the wrong tree.

Also, what a lame “black market” drug to push. Back in the day, spammers at least had the balls to try and sell things like viagra or Vicodin, or get you to visit their porn sites.  They’ve apparently all turned into a bunch of snowflakes now. I almost long for the days when I would open up my email and discover I had a huge Nigerian inheritance waiting for me; all I had to do was send them my banking information and the money would be deposited into my account within 24 hours.

At least it brought a little excitement into an otherwise humdrum day.


The only thing worse than receiving spam was having one of your perfectly innocent outgoing emails flagged as spam. This happened to me at work a few years ago. I was alerted to the fact by one of our web guys, who informed me that an email blast I had tried sending had been flagged and wound up in the company spam folder. He sent a rather lengthy (and somewhat condescending) explanation stating that “the subject and content of your message determines your spam score” and chided me for using “sexualized content” and “spammy phrases.” I was outraged over this insinuation. I am many things, but a pervert is not one of them! Not at work, anyway.

More than anything, I was confused. I had no idea why my email promoting an upcoming member symposium in Austin could even remotely be construed as spam, even by a robot…

…until I saw the list of offending words and phrases, which included the following:

  • bigger
  • touch
  • enjoy yourself
  • video
  • watch now

And, my personal favorite, “square feet.” Jesus. Don’t judge a man by his fetish!

Actually, I couldn’t help but laugh out loud after reading the list. Because, as loathe as I am to admit it, reading that does make me seem like some sort of freak. But it’s taken out of context! Because “everything is bigger in Texas!” Including the ballroom (I’m surprised “ball room” wasn’t flagged), with a “touch” of class where you’ll be able to relax and “enjoy yourself” in 60,000 “square feet” of space. Finally, the email included a link to a “video” that I implored recipients to “watch now.”

See? It’s all easily explained. And yet, I was automatically branded as some sort of miscreant with a one-track mind.

Almost exactly one year later, I quit that job and moved 1,200 miles away. Ostensibly for a better life, but maybe I was just trying escape my wounded reputation?

14 thoughts on “Beware of False Perverts

  1. I suppose a lot of things can be taken out of context and wind up sounding really pervy. Though I can’t imagine square feet, unless someone is REALLY exaggerating their body part size! Lol!

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  2. Wow. With an email like that, how are you not a registered sex offender?!

    I’m trying to think if I ever used any two of those words in any company email. It would be nice to have a convenient excuse for people not writing you back.

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  3. Both Google/Blogger and Disqus do a great job of capturing any spam before it reaches my inbox. And you’re right, it’s been eons since I’ve gotten a Viagra spam email or one from a Russian dominatrix named Hildegard.

    I don’t think I’ve ever had one of my emails flagged as spam though. I mean, not that I know of.

    HA! Reading over you words/phrases, I can definitely see why you flagged.

    Too funny, Mark!

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  4. Spam filters in WP are weird. Today I looked around in it and saw several comments from a long time follower (years) whose regular comments (on nearly all my posts) were flagged as spam. Going back about a month.

    Why now? Why not before?


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  5. I wonder if I’ve sent some spammy emails/made undesirable comments not realizing it? Probably. Algorithms are snoopy and uptight. Always on the lookout for perversion, like Gladys Kravitz on Bewitched.

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    1. I always assume I used the product once, or thought about using it, in order to end up on their spam list…but I know that’s not the case with some of these!


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