First off, thank you to everyone who provided feedback on my novel ideas! Not only for your votes, but also, your insightful comments on how I might flesh out some of those concepts. Your suggestions were very helpful, and have given me much food for thought. I feel very motivated to tackle a couple of these projects now!

(Well, not right this second, but someday. Someday soon, I promise!)

This is why I love blogging so much. It feels like we’re all part of one big community, free to share our innermost thoughts and desires without fear of ridicule (though a certain someone does give me shit for loving Spam). We support one another, offering advice when needed, condolences during hard times, and bail money when we’ve made poor life choices. OK, that last part might not be true, but you guys aren’t just readers to me – I consider you friends and value your opinions. Except the anti-Spam ones.

OK, enough of the sappy stuff. Here are the poll results, as of this morning:

Sixty Second Exposure is my personal fave, so I was happy to see so much interest in that one. Gotta admit though, I was surprised that 39 1/2 resonated with so many of you. While it’s an intriguing concept – it makes a great elevator pitch, ha! – I didn’t feel I could do much with the story. But after reading your comments, I realize there are many directions I could go, so this is another one worth pursuing. Your top three are my top three, so thank you again for all the great feedback!

Oh crap, is that Dubuque?!

Tuesday was my first day back in the CheeseGov office in three weeks. Before heading out, I joked that it had been so long since I’d made the commute, I might take the wrong exit and end up in Stoughton or Sun Prairie or Iowa. That didn’t happen, but geez Louise, the weather did its best to throw every obstacle it could find my way. Between the heavy rain, dense fog, and pitch darkness, I could barely see the road on my drive to Madison. The rain finally let up when I reached the Beltline, and the black gave way to gray, so the last seven minutes were smooth sailing, at least.

Remember when rain in January used to be weird? We’ve got more coming this afternoon. Then snow on Saturday. The seasons don’t even know what season it is anymore, sigh.

I might have opted to work from home that day, but I needed to check up on this guy.

There’s only one person on Team MarTar with a green thumb, and it ain’t Mar. But we were kicking it on Willy Street back in November, stopped in a garden shop, and I couldn’t resist picking up this succulent for my desk. (Honestly, I was more into the planter than the plant. I suppose I could have used it as a candy dish or paperclip holder, but that feels like cheating, so a succulent it was!)

My track record with office plants isn’t great. I had one at CenturyCo, but when I brought it home prior to our move, the first words out of Tara’s mouth were, “What did you do to that poor thing?!”

Apparently, what I did was either either overwatered or under-watered the “poor thing.” Whichever one causes droopy, yellow leaves. My bad.

So, I was understandably skittish about trying my luck with a succulent. But Tara assured me they were basically maintenance-free, the only rule of thumb being, do not overwater them. Other than a quick dunk on November 16, I hadn’t watered him since. This wasn’t intentional, but the holidays happened and there was an unexpected WFH day somewhere in the middle. Luckily, he seemed perfectly fine when I checked on him this week. And now he’s freshly watered, so remind me in mid-February to wash, rinse, and repeat, please and thank you.

Tripping over temporary

Someone asked for a picture of the mirror I got Tara for Christmas. Another person requested a picture of the cats. Welp, I’m a people-pleaser who prizes efficiency, so I figured I’d kill two birds with one stone.

Vain much, Shirley?!

And no, we are not keeping the mirror on the dining room floor. That was a temporary spot on Christmas morning. And okay, fine, temporary in this case meant nine days. But we finally moved it to the guest room, another “temporary” spot, while Tara decides where to hang it. We have a cardboard box full of vintage store finds – framed prints, wicker baskets, copper molds, a birdhouse – that we “temporarily” stuck in the basement two years ago and are still tripping over, so it’s anyone’s guess when the mirror will find a permanent home.

Anyway. She said cats, plural, so here’s Laverne, who often experiences tunnel vision.

What do you enjoy most about blogging? Do you have any good succulent advice? Does it take you forever to put things away too?


61 responses to “Mirror, mirror, on the floor…”

  1. This is so true! Fellow bloggers really do feel like the best of friends, and the people are absolutely the best part of blogging!

    As for the seasons not knowing what season it is anymore, I concur. We had snow in Phoenix in September (what?!) and the weather has been bipolar since, oscillating between abnormally warm and days of frigid rain.

    Anyways, your cats are adorable!

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    1. Really? Phoenix had SNOW?! I didn’t even think that was possible, especially in September!

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      1. Every now and then! Maybe I need to write a belated post about it LOL. It’s really quite bizarre and apocalyptic….

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      2. I’d be very interested in reading that.

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  2. Q1: The community, hands down, without getting [a particular Nirvana song] about it. And reading funny shit like this post.

    Q2: We actually have a bunch of succulents in our yard that basically fend for themselves, so good choice there. That’s almost the only thing we can keep alive.

    Q3: Yes. And cute mirror. Cuter cats-plural. Thank you. 🙂 And I’m also a sucker for rugs, so I noticed your nice one there too. I also love wicker baskets. I hope I get to see yours!

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    1. Without getting In Bloom about it? Without getting Verse Chorus Verse about it? Without getting Scentless Apprentice about it? Without getting Rape Me about it? Man, I wish I knew which Nirvana song you were referring to!

      Good to know your succulents are thriving. And it is a pretty nice rug!

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      1. Sappy! You used the word in your post! 😛 And, dang, I don’t remember Scentless Apprentice. Now I need to refresh my memory on that one. I was sooooooo delighted when you reminded me of You Know You’re Right. (Despite the plethora of o’s, that was not sarcasm.)

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      2. Well, duh. In fact, “Verse Chorus Verse” is an alternate name for “Sappy.” And also a completely different song on the demos. The answer was staring me in the face all along!

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      3. I may regret revealing this info about me, but it’s a story that will make you feel better. Someone once asked how old I was. (Amazingly, he didn’t die on the spot.) I told him the answer was in a popular Smashing Pumpkins song. He sent a screenshot of his Googled response to the question of their most popular songs. I told him, yes, one of those. (He still didn’t get it.) I helped him whittle it down to the correct song! He responded with: “I listened to the entire song, and I didn’t hear the answer.” The song, of course, was 1979. He felt pretty foolish. 😛

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      4. I knew before I even finished reading the third sentence of this comment that you were referring to 1979! Guess I’m a bigger Pumpkinhead than he is.

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      5. Definitely, and I knew you would. He is more of an 80s guy. I had never even heard of Oingo-Boingo, his favorite band. I tried it. Not a fan. But the funny part was that he knew the song title and still didn’t figure it out. Ha!

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  3. 1. Absolutely the conversations with other bloggers
    2. I can just look at a succulent in the store and watch it die. I always overwater. Always.
    3. Nope. Things have a place and I see to it that the item gets to that place post haste.
    * * Add me to the spam haters list. Spam is one major part of the multitudes of childhood trauma I experienced. I never ate it but just seeing it plop out of that can was horrific. I was however absolutely fascinated by that little key used to open the can. Then I ran away screaming at the horror I knew was coming.

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    1. Oh, no. I hope you looking at the photo of my succulent doesn’t kill it!

      Spam had a key? Really? I thought that was just canned sardines (or maybe herring?). Sounds like that would be a collector’s item…and a delicious one, at that!

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      1. No guarantee Mark, I have killer eyes. I’m a tad bit older than you so yes, in my very young days spam was opened with a little attached key that you rolled all around the top so the lid would pop off and reveal the slime and sludge inside. Fun, but also a serious threat if you wanted to run your finger around the edge for a few extra licks of the gloppy fat.

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    2. I never tried SPAM but of course we have it 🇨🇦 as well. I can’t bring myself to taste it. 😬

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      1. Spam is international. And even transcends Spam. When I lived in Nicaragua, we received food aid from Norway. It included a suspiciously Spam-adjacent product. I don’t remember the brand name. We had an informal competition to come up with the best use of it. Since our diet was mostly rice and beans, it was a treat.

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      2. Good. You will regret it for the rest of your life. Trust me 😉

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      3. Don’t listen to the hater(s), Claudette. I challenge you to try Spam and write an honest blog post about your thoughts!

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      4. Well I do have an imminent trip to Walmart planned, I’m sure they carry this so-called food in a can. Not making any promises…😀

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  4. That’s the great thing about blogging, I can ridicule your fondness for questionable canned meat and still love you at the same time.
    Great photos of the cats, who clearly don’t get enough coverage on your posts.
    I vote for another novel…
    And more cats.
    👍

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    1. Another great thing about blogging? I didn’t even have to mention your name, but you knew exactly to whom I was referring. 🙂

      I will try to rectify the lack-of-catness.

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      1. They all think it. I’m just brave enough to say it…
        🤣

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  5. I can beat you for temporary storage. My wife tends to store things on the dining room table. When we have someone over for dinner she clears it off. On 9/29/13, we were having people over and she wasn’t getting around to sorting through her papers. I asked if I could just shovel them all into a box and put it in the basement for her to go through later. She agreed. I labeled the box “Dining Room Table 9/29/13” and put it atop her pile in the basement. It is still there.

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    1. Ha…you win! I feel a little better about our two-year-old box of stuff now. We have a hard time with mail; it tends to pile up on the dining room table until it is eventually moved somewhere else…and then good luck finding it. We have an uncashed check from my mom from November that we’re still on the hunt for.

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      1. November of 2025? 😉 No big deal.

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  6. Awww….Shirley! She’s a scene stealer, isn’t she? I’m so glad you got such a powerful boost from your poll…good, good, good. And I’m with you…the best thing about blogging are these friendships. True, real, wonderful. Thank you for adding a light oomph to my bleary Thursday afternoon with your post. We’ve got the same weather as you, I think, down here in the Chicago area. Gray…on top of gray…with oddball January drizzle. But I’m not complaining. Really, I’m not! 😜

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    1. I don’t mind the gloom too much; it always reminds me of the PNW. But I wish the gloom was accompanied by snow instead of rain, which is the natural order of things around these parts!

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      1. I hear you! And right! You’ve got the sunshine covered from your Hawaiian roots and the PNW damp, too. I think we might get a dusting of snow on Saturday…😜

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      2. Same here. It was looking like a lot more a couple of days ago, but no such luck now.

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  7. That mirror is beautiful! I don’t have much extra space to throw stuff in as my home is really small so it tends to take care of the clutter issue. As for house plants I gave killed so many things and I currently have the same plant that is miraculously alive! My mom told me that back in the day they called it ‘mother in law’s tongue’ as a nickname because you couldn’t kill it. Yikes!

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    1. LOL! Best, most accurate nickname ever!

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  8. Ps I love all the feedback, comments, tips and friendships in the blog universe. And I’ve even met some !

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    1. Me too. The back-and-forth is the best part! I’ve met a bunch, dated a couple, and married one. That’s saying a lot!

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  9. What’s a beltline? Googling confused me. Do you have Canadians following your blog? If you do direct them to this comment because I don’t know if this is an American term or what… Do Canadians use beltline? If yes, when? How? 😵‍💫

    I always thought belts had something to do with pants. 😛

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    1. The Beltline is a highway that once went around the city of Madison, WI. While it didn’t completely encircle the city, it acted as a belt, holding the city in. That didn’t last. The city now extends well beyond its belt, like the waist of an overweight person. (Similar usage is the beltway that encircles Washington, D.C.)

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      1. Thank you very much for this explanation! I will have to go and look at a map to get a visual now…

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      2. Yes, thank you so much for your response! I was about to type up a lengthy answer to Claudette, but you saved me the trouble. My fingers are now a little less sore than they would have been otherwise.

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  10. I’ve killed succulents before so my advice is to not let me near it. 🙂 I love blogging for the support and connections. I feel like my blogging community knows more about me than many of my face to face friends. Rain in January isn’t weird to me. I prefer one lowland snowstorm per winter; the rest of the time it can fall (needs to) in the mountains. I LOVE that mirror! It’s gorgeous.

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    1. I’m not too worried about you killing my succulent, being that you’re a couple thousand miles away!

      It’s funny, rain in January used to be completely normal to me. Not having rain in January would have been weird! But once I left the PNW in 2018, it suddenly felt strange. It’s supposed to be snow this time of year in the Midwest!

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  11. Most of what we buy is something we need . . . so it gets put into service tout de suite! This week, I bought a small bamboo tray to stash in a kitchen drawer for sorting tea bags. It was in place & each of its 12 compartments displayed tea bags mere minutes after we arrived home. Now, when I open the drawer, I can see all varieties of tea at a glance. 😀

    I like blogging because it’s interactive. I get ideas to incorporate into my life (or, in the case of SPAM, to avoid in my life) & I enjoy the back and forth of comments. It’s a cool hobby.

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    1. I see this post has brought the Spam haters out of the woodwork! That’s okay; more of the delicious canned meat for me. 🙂

      Tara and I have pretty distinct traits: she’s into cleaning, while I hate clutter. You’d think the two go hand-in-hand, but they don’t. Our stovetop will sparkle and there will be fresh sheets on the bed, while a week-old pile of mail sits on the dining room table. Rarely does the cleanliness and organization align.

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  12. The planter is awesome, and I am sure even the succulent would be the first to say that. We used to have “black thumbs” and killed anything green that came within a five foot radius of us…but then we found cactuses. Little bit of water, good dose of indirect sun. Problem solved. We got our “green thumbs” certificates and then moved on to aloe and pepper plants. Everything we touch grows now. Life is good. Blogging is good as well. There are way more intelligent people on WordPress than in my daily life, so it is a good hobby to have. Even though I have been off-and-on-and-off WP, people still remember me after all these years, visit my web site, and leave thoughtful comments. I try to return the favor, and that rising tide lifts all boats!

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    1. I learned something interesting: all cacti are succulents, but not all succulents are cacti. That, at least, explains why they thrive with little water.

      I love your description of a rising tide lifting all boats. Perfect analogy for the blogging community! (And I, for one, am always happy to see you around the WP universe.)

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  13. I enjoy meeting people from all over the world through blogging. For a while, I had a follower who was a surfer guy in Australia. Alas, he disappeared (I suspect his wife wasn’t happy with some of his posts that mentioned her in a not so positive light).

    I have pretty good luck with plants because I don’t overwater. However, that luck doesn’t seem to extend to succulents. I will wait a month to water, then water it lightly and the next week, it’s dead. 🤷‍♀️

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    1. I have the opposite problem of Surfer Guy: Tara says I paint her in too positive a light! But that’s not really true; on my old blog, the year of my divorce, I absolutely did not hold back on the terrible things my ex was doing.

      Great…now I have to worry whether my succulent will still be alive when I return to the office next Tuesday…

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  14. We are great procrastinators. Christmas is still up at our house!

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    1. You can always flip the script and say you’re great planners, because your house is already decorated for Christmas 2026!

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  15. Good to see you got some helpful comments from all your great story ideas.

    While I enjoyed my career, one of my coworkers and I always joked about accidentally missing the exit and driving to Mexico on the first day of school.

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    1. Ha! I suspect, even if you love your job, there will be days when you’re longing for refuge in another country!

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  16. Apparently me and 1 other person prefer 39 half…but hey Man in all honesty maybe tackle both as short stories

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    1. Tempting idea, but I cannot for the life of me write a short story. I’ve tried! For some reason, they always turn into novels.

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  17. beautiful mirror and even more beautiful kitty! You know what is really good is spam tacos. Mmmm!

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    1. Believe it or not, I’ve never had a Spam taco. That sounds amazing!

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  18. Right now my boxes of decorations are still on living room floor. I hate moving things to storage locker in basement

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    1. To be fair, that sounds like a little more work. I just need to drag everything into the garage – no stairs or elevators required.

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      1. It’s having to move things out so I can put these boxes towards the back. Just a process

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  19. Oh gosh, plants and I don’t get along very well either, despite my best efforts. I *want* to have a green thumb. I try so hard and I still only have about a 50% success rate with plants. Meanwhile, my mom has had the same plant for 50 years, and she really just waters it and leaves it alone. So clearly I didn’t inherit my thumb color from her…

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