As I type these words, Tara is in Rapid City for a friend’s wedding reception. I would have gone in a heartbeat – neither of us had been back since moving away two years ago, and my own trip was foiled by snow in April – but leaving Laverne and Shirley alone for four days would really be pushing it. And while our neighbor Brian is kind enough to gift us with mushrooms and homemade jam, we aren’t quite on cat-sitting terms with him yet.

Four days might be too much, but one night was do-able, so I planned a quick little getaway of my own to coincide with Tara’s trip. I figured I’d have less time to be jealous if I was off an adventure, too.

So Thursday morning, before the sun even rose, Tara headed west while I went Up North, as they say in Wisconsin. WAY up north: my destination was Superior. When I mentioned this to my coworker, Randy, he said, “You could have stayed in Duluth, you know.” Apparently, he thinks Superior is inferior. And I kinda get that; the one time we drove through town, we weren’t impressed. But it was conveniently located for what I had in mind, and I found a Super 8 that was reasonably priced. I didn’t have a ton of options since this was sort of a last-minute plan.

The drive north was pretty low-key. I was pleasantly surprised by all the fall colors once I reached Tomahawk. The North Woods of Wisconsin are beautiful year-round, but especially when the maples and oaks start changing color. If I had to choose a word to describe my drive, I’d pick bucolic.

After six hours on the road I reached Bayfield, and was more than ready for a break. This quaint town on the shore of Lake Superior is best known as the gateway to the Apostle Islands, and while a cruise and/or kayaking through the sea caves is on my bucket list, that will have to wait for a future visit. I ducked into a bar called the Pickled Herring for a bite to eat and a Bloody Mary. The whitefish sandwich, a Lake Superior specialty, did not disappoint, and the beer-battered fries were fantastic.

Afterward, I strolled around town for about an hour. Bayfield is charming AF!

It was late afternoon and Superior was still an hour away, so I reluctantly bid farewell to Bayfield and continued west, stopping briefly at Meyer’s Beach to dip my feet into the cool waters of Lake Superior. It was a very warm day, in the upper 70s, and the water was refreshing.

After checking into my room – which was about what you’d expect from a Super 8 – I turned around and got back into the car, because clearly I’m a masochist. No, actually, I wanted to check out this upscale cocktail bar called the Spirit Room I’d heard good things about. I’m happy to say it lived up to the hype. The cocktails rotate weekly, so there’s always something different to try.

I chose the lychee lemon mojito, followed by the ginger brandy old fashioned. Both were top-notch, and the prices were pretty reasonable. I struck up a conversation with the bartender and a local next to me who was prepping for their Golden Girls trivia night event. Which explains the photo of Betty White behind the bar. What a fun place! I could have stayed for hours, but I did have to drive.

My next stop was Duluth. Yes, I know, I could have stayed there – it’s just across the bridge from Superior! Two years ago, my friend Ashley had recommended Northern Waters Smokehaus for their sandwiches, which Tara and I tried and absolutely loved. I figured I’d grab one and take it back to the room. I ordered my sandwich to go (the D-Luxxx: smoked pork loin with lettuce, tomato, provolone, mustard, and mayo on a hero roll, so freakin’ good!), but the sun was setting and the evening was so pleasant, I decided to wander around Canal Park in Duluth.

Duluth is pretty cool. Who knew? Tara and I plan to take a weekend trip there one of these days.

If that had been the extent of my getaway, it would have been a very fulfilling one. BUT WAIT! THERE’S MORE! I still had one more stop to make on Friday morning before beginning the long trek home: a hike through Pattison State Park, which boasts Wisconsin’s tallest waterfall. Tara and I had visited two years ago, and I wanted to come back closer to the peak fall foliage, not realizing this was the same weekend we visited in 2022, ha. Not that it mattered; I was the first one at the park, a few minutes after 8 a.m., and spent 2.5 hours hiking and enjoying the scenery.

(Note to future self: next time, visit on or around Oct. 10. The fall colors should really be poppin’ then.)

I was on the road by 10:30 and back home a little after 4:00. All in all, I had a great time and crammed a lot into a less-than-36-hour trip!

Irony of ironies, Tara is actually jealous of my getaway. Apparently, Rapid City has “lost its charm.” I’ll give you the scoop on that after Tara gets back. She’s got a long 12-hour drive across three states tomorrow; can’t say I envy her one bit.


58 responses to “Your heart is true, you’re a pal and a confidant.”

  1. Nice little getaway. Superior may be inferior… but that cocktail list and low prices are A okay in my book. Glad you’re seeing some fall color.
    😊

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    1. Like I told Mark, between your and his blog I’m on a quest to try as many cocktails as I can, despite rarely going out… 😄

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      1. Always happy to be a cocktail inspiration.
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      2. I’ve always been pretty comfortable going out on my own. That helps!

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    2. You’ve inspired me to branch out, too (though I still ended up with an Old Fashioned – but ginger-infused brandy is pretty unique!).

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  2. sounds like a great little trip, consider it a recon mission with great drinks and views

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    1. My favorite kind of mission!

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  3. Such beautiful photos! I love the mix of scenery and food/drink because I’m always curious about what places and meals look like. Weird, eh? 36 hours is a perfect getaway; my cat can generally handle two days of me being away but then gets destructive. (bored?)

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    1. When I left Thursday morning, I filled both their food bowls to the top. Normally they’re very carefully portioned out. So naturally, when I got home, I found they’d yakked up food in a couple of places. Gluttons! (This is why even 36 hours was pushing it.)

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  4. What a nice getaway! It looks like you had fabulous weather. I think I would have had to stay at that bar several hours just to drink all the cocktails that sounded yummy… then got an Uber back to my hotel.

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    1. The weather was perfect – not a cloud in the sky the whole trip. A little too warm for my tastes, though.

      I totally should have done the Uber thing!

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  5. So envious of the fall colors. Looks absolutely lovely. Did the cats give you hell when you returned?

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    1. Actually, they were craving extra attention. I’ve barely had my lap to myself since returning home!

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  6. I’m making notes of places to visit whenever our travels bring us to Wisconsin.

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    1. I’m happy to be your travel advisor. I’ve already helped out Deb’s daughter twice!

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  7. Between you and Rivergirl I’m exposed to so many tasty cocktails, might become an alcoholic pretty soon. 😎 The Salted Sour looks intriguing. 🍹🍸

    Stunning pictures as always. 🥰

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    1. Craft cocktails are so good, and yes, it was a toss-up between the salted sour and the ginger brandy old fashioned. If I’d hung around longer, that one would have been next!

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  8. That state park looks beautiful. As does Canal Park. I don’t envy Tara’s drive. Was it a friend she made while living there?

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    1. Yes, a coworker-slash-friend. She was close with Chelsea (the bride) and another coworker, Rachel, so this was a great opportunity for her to catch up with them. Plus Christmas Light Kelly, of course!

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  9. Tara’s jealous of your getaway? Me, too! I love Bayfield and you’ve captured the allure of the Northwoods soooo well. Food, drink, kitsch, nature. Love! 🥰

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    1. Well heck, you’re close enough for a weekend getaway of your own up there!

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      1. Yeppers! 🥰😎🥰

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  10. Thanks for sharing your lovely photos.

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  11. Perfect mini vacation!! We were one day away (at a brewery in Superior) from seeing Charlie Parr play. That would have been perfect, actually.

    Did you drive through Washburn, by chance?

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    1. I did pass right through Washburn, as a matter of fact. When I was figuring out where to stay, I had it narrowed down to there, Ashland, and Superior. What’s your connection to Washburn?

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      1. The county park is the first place we stayed that we really loved. We turned one week there into three. It’s also where Banjo nearly blew up the trailer, if you know that story.

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      2. Ahh, yes…I do remember Washburn now!

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  12. What a great little getaway! You can’t go wrong with good food and fall foliage.

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    1. It was so much fun, I’m planning a return trip next year – the second weekend in October. With Tara next time!

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  13. Stunning photos. Love all you packed in 36 hours and the waterfalls are fantastic. Can’t wait to hear the scoop on Rapid City — but I also think Team MarTar just makes wherever they adventure together much more fun!

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    1. Oh, without a doubt…wherever we end up, we’re going to have a blast. Mark my words!

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  14. Wow – that’s a long trip for an overnighter! Haven’t been to Bayfield in years, but we go up to Duluth now and then. (Of course, it’s a much more reasonable drive for us.) There are some nice state parks up the shoreline from Duluth, so you might want to factor those into a planned trip there. And fall would be a great time to go – fall colors AND no skeeters!

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    1. You had me at no skeeters!

      Was it a lot of time spent in the car? Yes, it was. But were the destinations worth the boredom and price of gas? Yes, they were. I’ll keep in mind the parks north of Duluth.

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  15. Gorgeous photos. Can’t wait to hear about Tara trio

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    1. Thank you. I had great weather, as you can tell.

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  16. What a great trip. Thanks for sharing.

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    1. Sharing is what I do! Thank you for reading. 🙂

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  17. Your photos are great. I’ve never been that far north in Wisconsin and it looks inviting. As does your ginger brandy old fashion. What a great flavor combo.

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    1. It was very good. I wanted to try something different because I usually gravitate toward Old Fashioneds, but this was unique enough to warrant staying in the same lane.

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  18. Solo trip to a new city is on my bucket list. Your adventure sounds perfect!

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    1. Solo trips are the best! Other than trips with your significant other, of course. Which I guess technically makes them second best…but still fun. Hope you get to do some exploring soon!

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  19. A Golden Girls Trivia night??? I love Wisconsin.

    What a fantastic trip! My mom has always wanted to visit Bayfield, and now I see why—it’s gorgeous up there. You’ve even inspired me to add Duluth to my list. No wonder you work for the state of Wisconsin. Maybe Minnesota should recruit you as well.

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    1. Duluth is underappreciated. It’s totally worth a visit. And seeing how much I promote the Spam Museum, you’re right. Minnesota owes me!

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  20. I’m happy to stop by your house once or twice a day if you want to be gone for a few days without worrying about your girls. I can provide proof that I’m a responsible adult if you like!

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    1. Actually, that’s great to know. I may just take you up on that in the future. Thank you!

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  21. Just for a change, both of your cocktail options sound absolute divine and right up my street. Your mini-trip sounds lovely too and I cannot believe you didn’t get the (metaphorical) finger from your cats, as mine always did that to me if I dared leave them. Clearly Laverne and Shirley are good girls 🙂

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    1. Well, they did yak up some of their food in Tara’s office. That kinda counts!

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  22. I can’t remember the last time I was in Duluth/North Shore. Teenage years, probably. Pretty country – especially with those fall colors coming on.

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    1. Next time we go, I want to drive further up the north shore. With or without fall colors, I’m sure it’s beautiful up there.

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  23. Still amazed that you can drink a couple of cocktails and drive… we’d frown on that in the UK. Beautiful photos though,, looks like a great place

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    1. Somehow I knew you’d say that. ha. No worries; I wasn’t even buzzed. They were so good though, I wish I’d stayed longer and Ubered back to my room as someone suggested.

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      1. Sounds like that would have been a great idea… Sorry to get at you, but I’m just intrigued. Whenever I’ve visited the US, I’ve had the idea that alcohol consumption is sort of frowned upon (although the demijohns of liquor in the supermarkets suggest otherwise) – but perhaps the US is a land of two halves? (and I’m by no means abstemious myself – but as I live in London, we have public transport)

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      2. Oh, it’s certainly not frowned upon…especially in Wisconsin. I’m pretty sure we (dubiously) lead the nation in alcohol consumption. There’s a long history of beer and cocktails in this state, especially in Milwaukee – aka Brew City!

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  24. I love your little get-away! The park looks stupendous, as did your white fish sammich and the pork one sounded great too.

    RUH ROH, What happened to Tara at the wedding? You’ve got to dish.

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    1. Oh, nothing happened at the wedding – just the vibes of her former home itself. I dished in my newest post!

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